Pure Fashion.
"Oh," they'd respond, wondering about that first
word - "pure" - and whether Carey, 17, was about to start wearing high
necked blouses and floor-length skirts.
But local members of the
national Catholic-affiliated organization said the group is more about
supporting inner beauty than covering up outer beauty.
Their efforts to embrace their bodies and show off their assets -
modestly, of course - culminates with a fashion show at Des Moines Golf
and Country Club in West Des Moines on Saturday.
The event will adhere to the organization's guidelines about showing skin:
- Shirts can't be lower than four finger-widths below the collarbone.
- Skirts shouldn't be too form-fitting and should be no shorter than four finger-widths above the knee.
- All styles should flatter the figure, but not draw extreme attention to any certain area.
The focus is on giving girls the tools to feel positive about their bodies.
"People clench at the term 'modesty,' " Carey said. "But we're just trying to help people dress tastefully.
"We
live in a world where girls are so, in a sense, pressured to look a
certain way or have the perfect beach body. What I like so much about
Pure Fashion ... is the focus isn't 'You need to be modest and cover
yourself.' (The focus is) realize how important you are because you're
yourself."
Stephanie Becker, a mother of four, helped start the
Des Moines chapter of Pure Fashion after hearing about the group
through an affiliated religious organization, Challenge.
"I've
always worked with youth and feel the need for the direction in these
youth and helping them to understand the truth," Becker said. "They
have so many struggles with self-esteem, and Pure Fashion teaches them
where their true dignity lies."
Pure Fashion isn't about avoiding mainstream fashion.
Rather, it teaches the girls to work with it. Go ahead and buy that low-cut sweater, but buy a long tank to layer with it.
"You'll
find appropriate things and not appropriate things in every store,"
Becker said. "It's a matter of how you piece that together. What Pure
Fashion tries to do is help girls to understand they can find fashion.
They just have to work with it."
When Carey showed her mom
photos of other chapters' fashion shows on the group's Web site, the
photos surprised them. "The Web site has pictures from other fashion
shows, and my mom said she wouldn't have even guessed it was a purity
fashion show," Carey said.
In its first year, the Des Moines
chapter of Pure Fashion attracted 20 participants. Some groups in
larger cities have as many as 80 members.
Activities have
included etiquette lessons, an overnight retreat focused on inner
beauty, a fashion design contest, a question-and-answer with
college-age Christian men about what attracts them in a woman and a
salon excursion where the girls received a makeover.
"The show is icing on the cake to take what they learn and become role models," Becker said.
Elizabeth
Nahas used the fashion show to fulfill a long-term goal and design a
dress. Her drawing of a fuchsia gown with a sash created from fabric
she dyed by hand won the fashion design contest. The dress is being
made by a local designer. Nahas chose it to be her prom dress at West
Des Moines Dowling Catholic High School. "My dream job would be a
designer. I've always loved designs and colors."
Nahas, who has
always participated in activities, made time for Pure Fashion because
the group combined two of her favorite things: religion and designing.
But she said the best part was a comfortable setting to make new
friends.
"Pure Fashion is more of a relaxing (activity)," she
said. "You get to meet a bunch of new people, including some
home-schooled girls."
Pure Fashion member Trinh Le, a senior at
Des Moines North High School, said she'd been influenced in the past by
"the media's definition of beauty."
She said Pure Fashion has made her more comfortable with herself. She even calls the group feminist.
"One
of their goals or objectives is to reinvent the definition of beauty,
and I really liked their definition," she said. "Respecting your body
and making sure everybody does the same."

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